Saturday, February 21, 2009

Aasiya Zubair's Call: Blow the Whistle Harder

Since I published my article, “Did we ever bother to know Muzzammil?,” almost all active and concerned writers, from Daniel Pipes to Hijabman, have found something useful in it that served their purpose. I will be humbled, if these writings will actually bring any greater good to our community at large.

The top most criticism at me is why did I hold this information secret until now? Here is a sample of comments:

Shaheen wrote:
What I do not understand is why Zerqa waited until now to expose Hassan. Why did
not she write about him like she is doing now? This could have been prevented. He kept finding girls to marry him even after the previous ones were abused. Aasiya had to pay the price of this silence. Those who remained silent and did not expose Hassan are Blame worthy too.

One Anonymous comment on al-arabia.net says,

you are absolutely right to point fingers and the community needs to reflect. but at the same time, in retrospect, wish you would have put pen to paper, made it your mission and conveyed this same insightful commentary before to the community... may be things would have been different.

Although I mentioned in my article that I was out of the country at the time of Bridges TV’s birth and that at my return I did try to warn people; only few readers like Phyllis Chesler took note of it.

Chesler writes in her chronicle:

..., Abid, tried, unsuccessfully, to alert the Muslim community to Hassan’s violent nature. This could be true. Most whistleblowers have a hard time alerting communities to the corruption and misogyny of their idealized leaders. But is it true?

Yes, it is true. The Muslim community is not unique in this regard, but our uniqueness lies in the style and rhetoric of the denial.

It’s not just this case. Anything or everything that you would like to blow a whistle upon within the Muslim community, you will hear back the very familiar argument of creating a “Fitna.”

According to Wikipedia, Fitna (فتنة) is an Arabic word, generally regarded as very difficult to translate but at the same time is considered to be an all-encompassing word referring to schism, secession, upheaval and anarchy at once. It is often used to refer to civil war, disagreement and division within Islam...

I was accused for the same. Some advised me, “Sister, please do not create fitna. Do not confuse the community. Look at the cause. He needs our support not the opposition.”

Others said, “Sister, you know how it goes between husband and wife. It does not mean that we condemn him forever. He is a gentleman and working for a noble cause. Sometimes women get upset very quick. Look at his wife now, she is happy with him. It must be your cousin.”

I can go on and on and can do finger pointing with names, but that’s not my intention. What happened is not the point to be stuck on and throwing mud on each other is not the purpose. This is only a point to refer to, to avoid future mistakes. What needs to be done is the actual question, and God willing, the correct answer to this question and its implication may save us from future troubles.

In my humble opinion, this complex question has a multi-layered answer.

The first and foremost is an individual’s role. Understanding of the importance of alerting people in time using all means of communication is crucial. The least we can do to make sure that Aasiya Zubair did not die in vain is that from now on we will blow whistle as long as it needs to be blown to get community’s attention.

This is my lifetime commitment from now on. If you like to call me a fitna creator, that’s fine with me. Regardless of the severity of the titles one may choose for us, we should not give up, unless and until our voice is heard.

The second layer of the answer is comprised of the role of imams and leaders. We need to ignore all those imams and community leaders who misguide us to be quiet. From this episode, we have learned the hard way that it’s important to shed light on our leader’s corruption, mismanagement, lies and fabrication as soon as it is apparent to us. It may cause disruption and chaos on the surface of organization in the short run, but it will save us from embarrassments and bigger disasters in the long run.

Our imams need to understand that superficial unity and “all is well” illusion does not serve the community well. Apparently, all is not well. Let’s face it and take care of it now before it is too late.

While I have been writing these lines, Dr. Parvez Ahmed, former chairman of CAIR national, has just posted a comment on my previous article. It’s a clarification on his part, since I hold national organizations accountable for not vetting Hassan in time. I deeply appreciate his honest sharing of his true feelings in this regard. In one of his points he writes:

The point about Muslim organizations being more diligent about who they associate with or promote or give a platform to is a fair one as a big-picture concept. Muslim organizations in general have a lot of growing up to do. Vetting is just one of many issues for them to address. However, in this particular instance, I do not know how could any organization (CAIR, ISNA etc.) have anticipated that Muzzammil was capable of acting in such a gruesome way especially if they were never alerted to his many personal failings?

This takes me to the third layer of our answer: The role of the Muslim organizations. In response to Dr. Ahmed’s question, I ask, aren't we in America? Do they mind a drug test or background check when they apply for a job at any reputable company? No. Then what’s wrong in doing the same before presenting them on the stage and handing them millions of dollars?

National Muslim organizations, especially those who provided Muzzammil a stage in 2003 and early 2004, had this responsibility to check him out at that time. Bridges TV was a huge financial and social project. It was a call to raise millions of dollars. A background check on this person who did not have any track record of community services on his part, and sending community alerts would have saved us from this bigger disaster now.

Let's admit that we messed up.

And let's move forward with a lesson and commitment to do better in the future.

Let's hear Sister Aasiya's call that is loud and clear now.

To the individuals: Blow the whistle harder and longer until your voice is heard.

To the community: Please pay attention to the whistleblowers and take due actions in time to avoid the damage later.

To our respectable leaders of Islamic organizations: Please take the responsibility and accountability seriously or leave the positions for the sake of the community.

To our Imams and scholars: Please stop promoting bigger fitna by labeling community alerts and whistleblowing a fitna.

3 comments:

  1. salaam aleikum,

    this is a noble endeavor and one that insha-allah will bear a lot of fruit. My only wish is that you NOT limit it to domestic violence but also expand it to include financial fraud/misdealings, criminal corruption, and/or ties to criminal enterprises. Just as the the Muslim community is not immune from their own version of OJ Simpson (as in the case of Muzzamil) it is also not immune from future versions of Bernie Madoff.

    Lastly, anyone who claims that you are "backbiting" or causing fitna, please have them look over this article about "amr bil maruf wa nahy anil munkar" or "enjoining the good and forbidding the evil". This is the *covenant* that Muslims make with Allah (swt) and is what is supposed to distinguish us from previous nations:

    http://www.muslimedia.com/ARCHIVES/movement00/amr-maruf.htm

    Kw

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  2. As-Salaamu Alaykum wa Rahmatullah.
    Keep up the good work, and may Allah reward you well. May Allah give our organizations success in 'growing up.'

    I think there is a fourth layer to what needs to be done. The causes of violence in individuals are not unknown. Mistreatment of children shapes the developing brain in ways that leave the child emotionally 'blinded' as it were, and in some cases can lead the kind of monstrous behavior evident in this case.

    Please note that it is not just 'child abuse' as it is legally defined by the various States here in the US...but mistreatment. This includes every humiliation, every belittling word, every smack, every disparagement of a child's tears. See the work, for example, of Alice Miller.

    Adults tend to refuse to acknowledge this truth as a function of the fact that almost all of us have been subject to some degree of mistreatment as children within a social context that defined the mistreatment as acceptable, so we minimize the importance of the violence done to children in the name of 'love' or 'discipline' or 'teaching respect.'

    This ongoing mistreatment of children is a form of abuse that springs from an emotional blindness different only in degree from the that of Muzzamil Hassan.

    To stop the violence we must attend to the root causes, and those causes lie in child-rearing practices few are willing to consider.

    Thank you for your posts. Let us work together to make sure Aasiya's Zubair's Call is heard around the world.

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  3. salaam aleikum,

    another person who you do need to blow the whistle on and very LOUDLY is this crackpot from the MuslimsforBush.com site. This was in happier times, when the neo-cons embraced him, the kufr media praised him:

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/this_world/4347061.stm

    http://www.muslimsforamerica.us/fullstories/march2006_missionaccomplished.html

    and ISNA gave him ample space at its bazaar (like his namesake Muzzamil Hassan of Bridges TV):
    A pro-Bush booth at the ISNA Convention stirred anger among attendees who believe the President’s actions since Sept. 11, 2001, have hurt more innocent Muslims than terrorists. They stop abruptly when they saw the 5-foot-tall photo of President Bush, with ``muslimsforbush.com’’ above his head. Then come the outbursts. ``Disgusting,’’ said one onlooker. ``Take that down,’’ said another. ``I think President Bush has misled not only the United States, but the world,’’ said Noor Maciael, an educator who called the booth ``disgusting’’ and planned to vote for Democrat John Kerry. ``He has put us in a situation where the whole world is hating this country.’’

    The display was funded by Pakistani-American Hassan family who recently created the group ``Muslims for Bush.’’ Seeme Hasan said that she and her husband Malik, a Colorado physician who earned his wealth in the health care industry, have donated more than $1 million to Bush and Republican causes since the 2000 campaign. ``The reason we are doing this is that Muslims don’t have a lobbyist,’’ Seeme Hasan said. ``We want to be there. We are going to give contributions at the highest level.’

    source: http://www.pakistanlink.com/Opinion/2004/oct04/01/02.html

    http://pluralism.org/news/article.php?id=7921
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    here is what this clown and his domestic Republican lackey, Muhammed Ali Hasan, treats women and associates with others in his spare time:

    a. claims of harassment and a restraining order taken out against him by a non-Muslim woman who worked on his campaign as a publicist:

    http://coloradopols.com/showDiary.do;jsessionid=E2901C231216B5508E1EA96C65499B12?diaryId=5545

    http://www.vaildaily.com/article/20080319/NEWS/634650911&parentprofile=search

    articles reveal he has also sired 2 bastard children from other women in other states, and was refusing to pay child support. this is the reason a Muslim must "vote" for him???

    b. having a convicted pedophile of little boys as his campaign manager for the same failed congressional seat run:

    http://coloradoindependent.com/20965/accused-child-molester-briefly-managed-ali-hasans-statehouse-bid

    c. Endorsing gay marriage for Muslims:

    http://www.muslimwakeup.com/main/archives/2005/06/gay-marriage-a.php

    http://coloradoindependent.com/23345/hasan-stuns-cpac-conservatives-with-defense-of-muslims-gays-mexicans

    with self-declared "leaders" like this given floor space at ISNA and lavished with praise on Fox News (the same one that opposes gay marriage) and the BBC, who needs enemies???

    salaam aleikum
    skh

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